Leadership in the Home

1. Love as Christ Loved:

  Husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved the church.

  This requires the Spirit's help and full dependence on the Lord.

2. Principles Over Specifics:

  Paul gives overarching principles for the home, not detailed instructions.

  Wives are under their husbands' authority, and husbands lead the home.

3. Countercultural Dynamics:

  The Biblical model of marriage is countercultural.

  Requires grace, mutual service, and the Spirit's help.

4. Three Responsibilities:

  Love: Sacrificial love like Christ.

  Learn: Understand and live with your wife in an understanding way.

  Lead: Lead your home in a way that honors God.

5. Christ as the Example:

  Husbands should have a steady focus on Christ.

  Lead by looking to Christ, the ultimate example of love and leadership.

6. Humility and Service:

  A husband should have a humble servant’s posture.

  Humility is essential for leadership, reflecting a correct understanding of oneself and God.

7. Gentle Shepherding:

  Lead with a loving and gentle shepherd’s heart.

  Protect, provide, and nourish your family.

8. Dependence on the Word:

  Be word-dependent, guiding your family with the Bible.

  The Word of God is the ultimate authority.

9. Leading by Example:

  Lead an exemplary life, demonstrating Christ-like behavior.

  Leadership is primarily about being an example, not just giving orders.