A Way to Live a Long Life

Ephesians 6:1-3

Well, children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 'Honor your father and mother,' which is the first commandment with a promise, 'that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.' This message, while directed at children, applies to everyone, young and old. Today, we are focusing on Ephesians Chapter 6, which begins by addressing children. However, the principles we’ll explore are relevant to all of us.

A Command for Children:

The Apostle Paul has guided us through various aspects of the Christian life, including relationships within the church and the home. In Ephesians 6, he addresses children, commanding them to obey their parents 'in the Lord' because it is the right thing to do. This is not just a parental expectation; it is a command from God.

The Promise of Obedience:

Paul highlights that this commandment to honor your father and mother is the first with a promise—that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land. This principle from the Old Testament is reaffirmed in the New Testament, emphasizing its enduring significance.

Practical Ways for Children to Honor Parents:

1. Listen: Pay attention to your parents' guidance. God gave you two ears and one mouth for a reason—use them to listen and learn.
2. Please: Seek to make your parents happy. Obeying them should come from a desire to please both them and the Lord.
3. Help: Assist your parents in practical ways. Whether it's doing chores or simply being attentive to their needs, your help is a form of honoring them.
4. Enjoy: Spend time with your parents and cherish the moments you have with them. Building a strong relationship with them now will enrich your life later.

For Adults: How to Honor Parents Later in Life:

1. Show Appreciation: Acknowledge the sacrifices your parents made for you. A simple phone call, card, or visit can express your gratitude.
2. Seek Their Counsel: Even as adults, we can honor our parents by seeking their advice and valuing their wisdom.
3. Care for Them: As your parents age, take responsibility for their well-being. This may involve helping with daily tasks, health care, or simply being present.
4. Spend Time with Them: Life is short, and time with your parents is precious. Make an effort to be with them and create lasting memories.

Conclusion:

Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother, for this is the first commandment with a promise that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land. By doing so, you not only please your parents but also your Heavenly Father, who gave His only Son for you.